Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

Happymoon

A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

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The Basics of Healthy Relationships


One person told me that while I was delaying the release of this book, so many couples would have time to ruin their lives. Oh, no. Everyone is in charge of their own destiny. And the thing is, there’s nothing in this book that they don’t already know. In relationships, people make conscious mistakes even when they know exactly how to behave. After all, everyone knows that the foundation of a healthy relationship is…


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  • Publisher: ‎HappyMoonUs
  • Language: ‎English
  • Paperback: ‎42 pages
  • ISBN: ‎9789695892527
  • Dimensions‏: ‎8×10”
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eBook on Amazon

  • ASIN: ‎B0DS149C3Y
  • Language: ‎English
  • File size‏: ‎12609 KB
  • Print length‏: ‎80 pages
  • Abridged e-book version without illustrations
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The audiobook is currently in production. It will be an abridged version consisting of 14 key chapters with a total duration of about two hours.

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Instead of a Preface

If you’re expecting to see another monumental work on relationship psychology, I’m afraid I’ll have to disappoint you. This is more of a children’s book for adults who keep making the same mistakes in their relationships over and over again.

We all dream of perfect love, of a partner who understands us without words, of relationships without conflicts and disappointments. But reality often turns out to be quite different. Why? Because we approach relationships with wrong expectations and outdated notions.

In this book, I invite you to look at relationships in a completely new way. We’ll explore why traditional advice about love often doesn’t work, and what it really takes to build strong, healthy relationships.

I won’t feed you fairy tales about eternal love, but I will offer a universal recipe for happiness. We’ll talk about the real problems couples face and practical ways to solve them.

Be prepared that some ideas in this book may seem provocative or even shocking to you. I deliberately go beyond conventional ideas about relationships to make you think and possibly reconsider your approach to love and partnership.

This book is for those who are ready for change. For those who are not afraid to take an honest look at their relationships and work on them. For those who want not just to love, but to build truly healthy, strong relationships.

Get ready for an exciting journey into the world of relationships as you’ve never seen it before. Let’s learn to love wisely together.

Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

Sounds too good to be true. I’m sorry, Arthur. You asked for an honest review. Not everyone can do that. Regina.

Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

Where were you before?! Unfortunately, I can’t take your advice right now. We’re getting divorced. But I will start a new relationship using your book! Paul. 

Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

What you’re suggesting might work, but it’s still a long way from real family therapy. Olga. 

Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

Questionable practice, but damn interested! Rome.

As a family psychologist and relationship counselor, I have reviewed Arthur Tiger’s new work with great interest. The book offers a unique perspective on building healthy relationships, striking a balance between practical guidance and philosophical reflections on the nature of love and partnership.

Key strengths of the book:

  1. A pragmatic approach to relationships through the lens of agreements and mutual commitments. The author rightly notes that any long-term relationship is built on a certain “contract” — whether explicit or implicit.
  2. A fascinating concept of a month-long experiment allowing couples to try a new way of interacting without long-term obligations. This is a psychologically sound approach that reduces resistance to change.
  3. A profound analysis of the nature of love that goes beyond both purely hormonal theory and romantic notions. The author proposes viewing love as a conscious choice and daily decision.

However, there are aspects that raise professional concerns:

  1. Over-simplification of complex psychological processes. While the author strives for practicality, some recommendations may seem naive for couples with deep-rooted relationship issues.
  2. Insufficient attention to dealing with trauma and psychological patterns that often underlie relationship problems.
  3. The ironic stance toward traditional psychotherapy (especially in the “Euphoria Harmony” chapter) might give readers the wrong impression about the potential of professional help.

Despite these observations, the book offers a fresh perspective on building relationships. Particularly valuable is its emphasis on practical tools and specific actions couples can take to improve their relationships.

The book can be helpful for couples at various stages of their relationships, especially those seeking a structured approach to solving relationship problems. However, it’s important to understand that for couples with serious psychological issues, it should serve as a complement to, not a replacement for, professional psychological help.

Dr. Michael S., Family Psychologist


Happymoon A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship

… I know there are countless expert books out there on this subject, but I’m going to cut to the chase and offer a simple solution to complex problems from an ordinary person’s perspective. My name is Arthur Tiger. I confess, I’m not a psychologist. I’m the last person you should go to with your mental problems. I’m not trying to help you save your relationship, let alone destroy it. You can do that without me. Just showing you the way to do one or the other faster.